Answer :
they do not matter because no one else can define you as a person. Being “popular” seriously will not matter when you grow up to be an adult because no amount of attention will make you a better person. sometimes it’s better to be an outsider because you can observe the right & wrong in the world. do NOT ever judge someone from being different than you. no one is a “loser” everyone is different and unique in their own way and that does not make them any less valuable than you.