Answer:
Row 2 Column 2: Thinks their Christmas is weird, gross and shabby.
Row 3 Column 2: How the author views her relatives, and what she thinks of their manners compared to Americans.
Row 3 Column 3: Is ashamed of her family
Row 4 Column 2: How bad chinese food is compared to traditional american food
Row 4 Column 3: Is nervous about how the boy will react to a different cultured food.
Through her descriptions of shame, disappointment, and fear, the author reveals that she does not like her family heritage and is scared the boy will think less of her.